An elegant way to find diff of two list of objects in Java

This is the simplest possible implementation.

The two lists will contain at max, 3-5 elements, so the size of lists is not a matter of concern.

Any recommendation on how can I make this pretty?

private ListsHolder findDiffOfLists(List objsFromDB, List objsFromRequest) {
    ListsHolder holder = this.new ListsHolder(); //An object holding two lists

    for(MyObjRequest req_obj : objsFromRequest){
        boolean isAdded = false;
        for(MyObject db_obj : objsFromDB){
            if(isSameObj(db_obj, req_obj)){
                db_obj.setVal(req_obj.getVal()); //Set new value
                holder.matchingObjList.add(db_obj);
                isAdded = true;
                break;
            }
        }

        if(!isAdded){
            holder.newObjList.add(req_obj); //If element does not exist
        }
    }

    return holder;
}

private boolean isSameObj(MyObject db_obj, MyObjRequest req_obj) {
       return req_obj.getMatch().equals(db_obj.getMatch());
}

I would create this method:

private MyObject findMatch(List objsFromDB, MyObjRequest req_obj){
    for(MyObject db_obj : objsFromDB){
        if(isSameObj(db_obj, req_obj)){
            return db_obj;
        }
    }
    return null;
}

and refactor accordingly.

Beyond that the only suggestion I would have is perhaps some better variable names (at least use a single naming style; if you don't already have one, use this: http://www.oracle.com/technetwork/java/codeconventions-135099.html#367).

StackExchange Code Review Q#11451, answer score: 2